How To Deal With Difficult People

"He's so bossy. I can't stand it!"

"She always interrupts me. I can't stand it!"

"He's so passive-aggressive. I can't stand it!"

"She's so negative. I can't stand it!"

If you've ever said anything like this about anyone, you need this book
to discover how to deal with behavior you - well - can't stand.

From Can't Stand to Understand: How to Handle Difficult People
By Annette Estes, CPBA, CPVA

Discover secrets of handling people who drive you up the wall, across the ceiling, and out the window! 

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“For many people, one of the most frustrating aspects of life is not being able to understand other people's behavior.”                                                                                                                                     Goethe

Ain’t that the truth! Even though there’s a solution to this dilemma, a lot of people don’t know about it.  Others do, but don’t learn enough to make much of a difference. It’s my hope this book will help you begin to understand the nuances of human behavior and give some guidance on improving your people skills.

What you'll discover when reading From Can't Stand to Understand...

  • The four types of DISC behavioral styles

  • Characteristics of each style

  • Which styles conflict with yours — and why

  • How to communicate with each style for establishing rapport

  • How to manage people

  • How to motivate people

  • Stories and examples that will make you laugh and perhaps scream

You'll also be able to determine your unique behavioral style and get an understanding of people who do things very differently from you.

Which of these behaviors drives you crazy?

  • People who try to dominate you

  • People who talk too much

  • People who talk too little

  • People who take forever to make a decision

  • People with hot tempers

  • People with bubbly personalities

  • People who won't open up to you

  • People who need all the facts before taking action

  • People who insist on doing things their way

  • People who won't listen to you

  • People who are passive-aggressive

  • People who are unfriendly

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Right now you might be asking,
“Who is Annette and why should I buy her book?”

Fair question. I'm Annette Estes and I am passionate about helping  people get along by understanding behaviors and attitudes and applying that knowledge for better relationships.

The Estes Group has been serving our clients for 20 years.  Annette is a Certified Professional Behavioral and Values Analyst, coach, and consultant; a graduate of The University of the Ozarks and  CoachU; a founding member of CoachVille and the International Association of Coaches (IAC); an award-winning columnist and expert eZine articles author.  Annette's first book was published in 2003 and is now an eBook, also.  It's entitled Why Can't You See It My Way? Resolving Values Conflicts at Work and Home.

Nobel laureate Thomas Mann said, "People's behavior makes sense if you think about it in terms of their goals, needs, and motives."

From Can't Stand to Understand will help you discover what's behind people's behavior.  This knowledge will help you stop taking their negative actions personally.  When you truly understand behavioral styles, you can laugh at behavior that used to make you angry.


 After reading From Can't Stand to Understand you will be better equipped to:

  • Communicate effectively with people who make you uncomfortable

  • Become friendly with people who seem to dislike you

  • Become a better manager

  • Become a better team member

  • Manage your boss, co-workers, family members, and friends

  • Influence people to do what you want or need for them to do

  • Develop more harmony in the workplace and at home

  • Get others to appreciate you for who you really are (and you for them)



For every copy of From Can't Stand to Understand we sell, we donate $1.00 to the Alzheimer's Association.  So, if you buy this book, it's a win-win-win for you, us, and those suffering from this debilitating disease.

If you don't want to buy the book, and/or if you'd like to make a larger contribution, you may make your own personal donation by going here to the Alzheimer's Association website.  This page is my tribute to my mother, Ruth Carlisle, who died on October 23, 2011, from complications of Alzheimer's disease.

My mother at age 95 and age 99


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What does it cost?

From Can't Stand to Understand could sell for $40.00 or even $50.00, but you can get it now for just $27.00  $17.00 - and get these 5 valuable bonuses worth $300.00 for FREE:

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